Glamour Puss Goes to Paris, Part Two
|Catherine Deneuve- The archetype of french chic.|
We all know what the Parisian woman is supposed to be like. She’s as elegant as Catherine
Deneuve, as cool as Charlotte Gainsbourg, as knowing as Jeanne Moreau, and she does things
with scarves. She whips up soufflés, can draw the perfect cat’s eye with liner, and maintains
sangfroid in the face of haughty waiters and amorous playboys. She might be a charming Pixie
like Amélie or a worldly seductress like Madame de Pompadour, but she’s the immutable icon of
|Charlotte Gainsbourg- it's hard to compete with that level of coolness.|
Here’s the thing: except in fiction, this mythical French woman doesn’t exist. In the Paris metro,
chances are higher you’ll sit next to a woman in jeans mass-produced in China with a shrink-
That said, chic women do roam the streets of Paris here and there. To wit, the Puss admired
an executive at a Comme des Garçons party. The executive was of a “certain age,” wearing no
discernable make-up, and her fox-brown hair was piled loosely on her head. With this tossed-off
glamour, she wore a to-the-knee strapless black dress. Fastened over it was an elaborately folded
black corset culminating in a twist of stiff cotton over her left breast. She leaned against the wall,
reached into the fold, and extracted a cigarette. Merveilleux.
But for the most part, Parisiennes live off reputation more than reality. The chic allure of the
French woman is a fairy story.
Does that make you sad? Not the Puss. In fact, it’s remarkably freeing. You know why? It
means you can make the myth your own. You don’t have to be born in Paris to live the dream—
whatever that means to you. The romance of “French chic” is something you can define on your
own terms and roll into your own life.
Let the Puss give you a few ideas she’s picked up in Paris and elsewhere for embracing savoir
vivre both in your wardrobe and your life:
• Throw out your ratty yoga pants and wear something glamorous but comfortable when
you’re lounging alone at home. When you were a little girl, did you dream of yourself
as an adult slumped by the television in pilled sweats and a Buffalo Bills tee shirt? The
Puss didn’t think so. The Puss opts for old kimonos and 1930s nightgowns for watching
Carole Lombard screwball comedies, but you might prefer a pair of men’s cotton pajamas
or a satin quilted robe.
• Try a drop of soy sauce in your homemade salad dressing to add a savory layer of flavor.
• If you normally wear somber, basic colors, top them with a bright, expertly cut coat. A
vintage coat is the Puss’s top choice—the quality and fabrics of vintage outerwear crush
anything you might buy at Nordstrom, and for a fraction of the price. One of the Puss’s
Parisian friends dropped a bundle on a custom made peony pink mohair swing coat. The
Puss knew she could find something equally stunning at the Xtabay and not blow her
• Look for crystal knife blocks to keep your tablecloth clean longer and make your meal
feel special. The Puss found a set of six Baccarat knife rests at the Porte de Vanves flea
market for an easy 20 euros. (On that note, buy heavy, well-made cutlery. A set of old
Christofle coffee spoons or horn-tipped Laguiole knives transform meal time. And look
for crystal cocktail glasses at Goodwill. The Puss recently found a set of champagne
glasses exactly like those Audrey Hepburn drank from in Breakfast at Tiffany’s.)
• Hang fat tassels from door knobs and drawer pulls.
• Find a cocktail dress that you love but that pushes the envelope just a little for you, and
rock it. Don’t go overboard on the makeup and gems, but choose one or two standout
pieces. Wear that dress like you were born in it.
• Be fabulous! It takes guts. Some people out there will try to pull you toward mediocrity.
But in you burns a flame of magnificence that is so you, so inspiring, and so individual
that no Marion Cotillard or Loulou de la Falaise or Colette could ever compete, because
they are not you.
The Puss could go on and on! But she has tested your patience long enough. What to you is
Parisian chic? And how can you incorporate it into your life?
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|Images from old 1940's Cadolle ad campaigns.|